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Thursday, 10 November 2011 17:09

A Gift for Overwhelmed Lightworkers

A Gift for Overwhelmed Lightworkers
Over the last few days, I've been called or emailed by four friends whose gifts of light I have long respected.  They all expressed that they were lately more tired and overloaded by the calls upon them for help with the same thing.  Right now so many of us who see ourselves as givers are in overwhelm with much of the rest of humanity.
With our orientation on giving, it is easy to forget that we have a responsibity to nourish ourselves, to do the things in which we find relaxation, a sense of Oneness, calm, and vibrant energy.  We can forget meditation entirely, or trim the time that we devote to it.
Another way of saying that is that it's easy to forget the Self.  If you are flying in a jet somewhere, and the oxygen gets depleted in the cabin in the cabin, we're told to get the oxygen for yourself first, before assisting others. It's good advice.  If you run out of oxygen, your human self cannot serve others and cannot thrive.
Be the change you want to see, is the saying.  This is possible only when you serve the Self to the extent that you take time to meditate and do the Self-nurturing activities and passtimes that turn up your own vibration.
Following is my response to a friend last night who had just detailed her challenge in an email.  You may find it useful:
....First, I think that it is wonderful that you give so much.  For me, it is the healer's apparent dillema: Balancing our waking hours between nurturing of Self and focusing on the nurturing of apparent others.  I am getting over just giving.
(Not a lecture; in writing this I am clarifying it for myself, kind of a different thing us creative types are wondrous about, and you just happen to be easy to share it with now, the catalyst for my creativity in this moment.)
For when we neglect the nurturing of the self, we cannot be in our full power to lovingly give and we cannot attain that which we came here to do: to fully unfold our loving natures. First responsibility, especially when you are close to the living ascended state, is to fully become that which you came here to become.
So if your intent is to be fully of service, an intent which I think you and I share, then you might choose to consider the possibility that you have a prioritized responsibility to nurture the deep Self so that you are as alive and vibrant as you can be for as many of your waking hours as possible, so that you are radiating maximum light to the world that includes and is You.
I see it often lately: Healers who are wonderful, spirited, loving beings in overwhelm, refusing to take time to nurture themselves.
I see it as my responsibility is to do everything in my power to ensure that the light I am sending to the world is of the highest frequency.
This is only possible to the extent that I am willing to take the time to do the things that nurture me, so that the vibration I emit is bright, spinning at high frequency.
The excuse some make, maybe a last vestige of ego, is that in serving others, they, themselves are served.  And that is true, of course.  Which doesn't make that a substitute for taking care of your own Self, building  your own power, engaging in the activities which are chosen to nurture your own Spirit.
One thing that comes to me to reflect on: It has come out, in the last few years
I think, that Mother Theresa never knew who she was.  In other peoples' reflections and in her own writings, we see someone totally disconnected from knowing what nurtured her.  And I am betting she has or had a lifetime after that to get the lesson.  Maybe the final lesson along the  path for some is that, once we get the joy of dedicating ourselves to giving, we allow our selves to more gracefully receive and to give to the Self.
Blessings,
Carlo
Over the last few days, I've been called or emailed by four friends whose gifts of light I have long respected.  They all expressed that they were lately more tired and overloaded by the calls upon them for help with the same thing.  Right now so many of us who see ourselves as givers are in overwhelm with much of the rest of humanity.  Our intent to exercise our spiritual empowerment asks us to remember to allow time and space for our own nurturance.
With our orientation on giving, it is easy to forget that we have a responsibity to nourish ourselves, to do the things in which we find relaxation, a sense of Oneness, calm, and vibrant energy.  We can forget meditation entirely, or trim the time that we devote to it.
Another way of saying that is that it's easy to forget the Self.  If you are flying in a jet somewhere, and the oxygen gets depleted in the cabin in the cabin, we're told to get the oxygen for yourself first, before assisting others. It's good advice.  If you run out of oxygen, your human self cannot serve others and cannot thrive.
"Be the change you want to see", is the saying.  This is possible only when you serve the Self to the extent that you take time to meditate and do the Self-nurturing activities and passtimes that turn up your own vibration.
Following is my response to a friend last night who had just detailed her challenge in an email.  You may find it useful.  Click on your pause button after reading it and ask your heart to express its will and its calm.  This is part of the way that we truly wake up.

....First, I think that it is wonderful that you give so much.  For me, it is the healer's apparent dillema: Balancing our waking hours between nurturing of Self and focusing on the nurturing of apparent others.  I am getting over just giving.

(Not a lecture; in writing this I am clarifying it for myself, kind of a different thing us creative types are wondrous about, and you just happen to be easy to share it with now, the catalyst for my creativity in this moment.)

For when we neglect the nurturing of the self, we cannot be in our full power to lovingly give and we cannot attain that which we came here to do: to fully unfold our loving natures. First responsibility, especially when you are close to the living ascended state, is to fully become that which you came here to become.

So if your intent is to be fully of service, an intent which I think you and I share, then you might choose to consider the possibility that you have a prioritized responsibility to nurture the deep Self so that you are as alive and vibrant as you can be for as many of your waking hours as possible, so that you are radiating maximum light to the world that includes and is You.

I see it often lately: Healers who are wonderful, spirited, loving beings in overwhelm, refusing to take time to nurture themselves.

I see it as my responsibility is to do everything in my power to ensure that the light I am sending to the world is of the highest frequency.

This is only possible to the extent that I am willing to take the time to do the things that nurture me, so that the vibration I emit is bright, spinning at high frequency.

The excuse some make, maybe a last vestige of ego, is that in serving others, they, themselves are served.  And that is true, of course.  Which doesn't make that a substitute for taking care of your own Self, building  your own power, engaging in the activities which are chosen to nurture your own Spirit.

One thing that comes to me to reflect on: It has come out, in the last few years
I think, that Mother Theresa never knew who she was.  In other peoples' reflections and in her own writings, we see someone totally disconnected from knowing what nurtured her.  And I am betting she has or had a lifetime after that to get the lesson.  Maybe the final lesson along the  path for some is that, once we get the joy of dedicating ourselves to giving, we allow our selves to more gracefully receive and to give to the Self.

Blessings,

Carlo
Published in Articles by Carlo Ami
Tuesday, 16 February 2010 12:20

Guest Article by Wynn Free on Why We Suffer

Editor’s note: This article is so extraordinary that I obtained permission from its author to republish it here.  I suggest that you read it twice, then pause for an extended time to contemplate its wisdom.

A huge part of what is to propel our communal unfolding into a more harmonious society is our willingness to be aware and to be open to new ways of thinking, new possibilities.  So many of us were indoctrinated into believing lies about who we are.  We believed these lies because they were told to us over and over by people we trusted and felt dependent upon.  Consider this alternative way of thinking about a very important subject, please:

 

Why We Suffer by Wynn Free

Once upon a time you and I were part of God. It’s not that we’re not part of God now, because we still are. The difference is we knew it back then, so because we knew it, we could act like it was so. When we acted like it was so, we were able to have anything we wanted, after all God is the creator, so in as much as we were part of God, so were we creators too. As fast as we could conceive of something, it would manifest and exist. With one exception; since everyone else was also part of God, we couldn’t create anything that would violate someone else’s Godliness.

For a while it was great fun. But eventually it got boring. So we all made an agreement to forget that we were part of God. And since we were Creators, we had the power to do that. We would create a planet, put bodies on that planet and then inhabit the bodies. But we wouldn’t remember we did that, once we inhabited the bodies. Of course, when we died, we would remember, but the way we set up the game was that until we could remember who we were while we were in a body, we would have to keep returning to that planet in new bodies. But there would be endless chances. And as soon as we would remember who we were, we could transform ourselves and have anything we wanted once again, as we reconnected with the power of the God/creator self inside us.

Most of us didn’t remember. We did things the hard way. Nothing came easy. And we suffered. We had long ago forgotten our origins and were living in a state of amnesia. We made up our own rules and did our best, but unfortunately our best wasn’t very good. We got all kinds of aches and pains. There was always this sense of isolation, loneliness, and confusion. But there also were numerous clues. For example, every night we would go to sleep and in our dreams, we would return to that place of original creation where we could, once again, have anything we wanted. And so we did. In our dreams we could have it all. But every morning, we would once again wake up in our state of amnesia and have to do everything the hard way.

So the original creator God decided to give us a little help. Various reminder people were allowed to show up in bodies; people like Lao Tzu, Buddha, Muhammad, and Jesus. On one hand, this violated the original rules of our game, but as a group, we were suffering so much that we petitioned the Big Guy for help and this is how he gave it. These new guys could speak great wisdom. The reminder people told us “why do everything by the sweat of your brow” when you could “put the kingdom of heaven first and all other things would be added.” They were able to remember that they were part of God and could create whatever they thought as long as it didn’t violate anyone else’s reality. And people did listen. And they were inspired. Except, the people kept thinking that these new guys were part of God but they themselves weren’t, so they put them on pedestals and worshiped them, even when they were directly told that “these things I do, you can also do and much more.”

The people continued to suffer because they had very limited ability to invoke their God/creator self. They continued to doing everything the hard way. Oh occasionally they would pray to one of those reminder people who were now exalted on pedestals. But most of them missed the real message. They mimicked the words and lived in the constant fear that they were doing something wrong. And they were going to be punished. The Big Guy had become a wrathful Father, separate from them instead of a loving support system. And that was OK, because eventually they would figure it out. Perhaps not in this lifetime. Perhaps not even in the next thousand lifetimes. But eventually they would tire and pay attention to their dreams and get the idea. They would understand the real message of those who had come to remind them.

If you happen to be one of those people who is still suffering and perhaps don’t believe in God, or entertain the thought that God has abandoned you, or put others on pedestals above you, or live in fear and guilt that you’re doing something wrong, here’s a key to awakening the God/ Creator inside yourself. Act as if it’s so. Assume that it is true and see if there’s a shift in the world around you. You must prove to yourself beyond a shadow of a doubt that it works this way. This is the meaning of faith – acting as if it’s so before you know. Eventually you will get an experience and you won’t have to imagine anymore; that you can think about something and it can occur as long as you don’t violate someone else’s reality. (also you must create the physical circumstances where it has the possibility of happening.

For example, if you want a job, you must make yourself available where jobs exist.) Also, when your wish does manifest, it may not look like a miracle. It might just look like a coincidence. But you’ll recognize it and know what it is. Ask for things to happen that are in “the highest good of everyone concerned”. You were created in God’s image ultimately to be an equal partner with Him. But this equal partner business might take millions of years of training. After all, if you’re going to be equal, you’ll have to know how to create an entire Universe. But that’s down the road. For most of us, loving our wife and kids and earning a living is about all we can handle. But it’s all part of the training. Are you better than your children because you were first? The very first step is faith. Make believe it’s so and see what happens. And be patient. Sometimes it takes a while to break down the patterns that you’ve grown accustomed to. And perhaps, you still really want to do things the hard way. Perhaps you’re one of those who have grown overly familiar with their suffering and would rather stay in the reality, which is comfortable. After all, if you should ever finally succeed, at least you’ll know that you did it all yourself and you can take all the credit, without any outside help from the part of yourself we’ve identified as God.

But if you are one of those who are reaching the point of being sick and tired of your suffering and would like to try a different approach, perhaps a much faster track, try imagining that this story is true. Don’t believe it, but try it on for size. If part of you is also part of God and if you can call on that part of yourself, perhaps you’ll get an answer and something will transform in the physical world around you and you’ll have your own personal validation. Not only will the circumstances of your suffering shift, not only will you be able to see God inside everyone else, but step-by-step you will be able to create a life full of love, joy and miracles. And you might even get to be one of those reminder people yourself. And it won’t be much longer (give or take a million years) that you’ll be out there creating planets, solar systems and universes yourself.

For more about Wynn Free, see www.messageaday.net

 

 

Published in Articles by Carlo Ami

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