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Monday, 11 January 2010 14:52

The Pointlessness and Purpose of Upset

Written by Carlo Ami
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Spiritual Empowerment I

It is a paradox.  The pointlessness of upset is that it serves no loving purpose to act or feel upset at circumstances or self.

For the “nitpickers” out there, I do not mean feeling the feeling of grief, for example, as a response to the death of a loved one.  I am not talking about experiences such as brief sadness felt when you read about people starving in the world.  It is when these experiences are felt deeply over time about the same experience that we sap our own energy.

I put the word nitpickers in quotations in the last paragraph because my sense of it is that as soon as I label someone as a nitpicker, then I have suggested that somehow I am better than that person. I do not make that suggestion.  We’ll talk more about the pointlessness of judgement in Spiritual Empowerment II.

To seethe in anger or to vent that anger at another being does not serve one.  It is a willful draining of one’s spiritual power by ignoring that loving, trusting power that exists within you.

What is more important to you: to win an argument via an angry or demeaning response…or to exercise an opportunity for compassion and acceptance?

To hold resentment of any kind for another does nothing but abuse the resenter.  To envy another is to block oneself from receiving whatever it is that the other person has that you resent them for.

There is another side of upset, its purpose.

The purpose of another’s upset directed at you is the manifestation of an opportunity for the you and any witnessers to respond with love.  This is the only purpose of upset.

Responding w anger or another strong negative emotion saps one.

When we respond with love, we grow and we simultaneously enhance the energy of others in the world.  As we do this more and more consistently, we will evolve more and more rapidly.  We will see with more and more clarity, the world we intend to create.

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Carlo Ami

Carlo Ami

While I do not claim to be a "fully enlightened being", I have been blessed with many teachers and I have found a clear sense of purpose and vision after half a lifetime of fear, frustration, anger, addiction, and self-sabotage. My teachers have taken many forms: Local mentors, great books, Native American/Lakota teachers, the calm and heat of the desert, sound healers, meditative practice, conferences/seminars and the basic joys and challenges of life.

Some of the most cathartic realizations/changes I have experienced have come in the silence of meditation. While some might call the clarity felt in these moments as “channeling”, it is my sense that the words and feelings that have come to me do not necessarily have an external source: my truth is that the deepest wisdom comes from within us. We simply are challenged to recognize this source and trust its high value.

Having spent so much of the earlier times in my life in what some might call a living hell, my inspiration is to offer ideas and encouragement to others who intend to have a life of more presence, calm, trust and love. I believe that all this is possible, particularly when one builds a sense of value for the wisdom that is within.

I welcome your questions and feedback.

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